Meaning & Explanation
The idiom “Crying wolf” comes from Aesop’s fable about a shepherd boy who falsely claimed a wolf was attacking his sheep. It refers to raising false alarms so often that people stop believing you, even when the danger is real.
Hindi Equivalent:
“बिना जरूरत मदद मांगना”
Literal Meaning: “Asking for help unnecessarily”
Detailed Explanation
This phrase warns against:
✔ False Alarms: Exaggerating or lying about emergencies
✔ Lost Credibility: People stop trusting repeated warnings
✔ Real Consequences: Being ignored during actual crises
Real-Life Examples
1. Workplace Scenario
- English: “He kept crying wolf about deadlines, so when a real crisis came, no one believed him.”
- Hindi: “वह बिना वजह डेडलाइन का हौव्वा दिखाता रहा, इसलिए असली मुसीबत आई तो किसी ने विश्वास नहीं किया।”
2. Parenting Situation
- English: “If you keep crying wolf about small injuries, no one will help when you’re really hurt.”
- Hindi: “छोटी-मोटी चोटों पर रोते रहोगे तो असली चोट लगने पर कोई मदद नहीं करेगा।”
3. Social Media
- English: “She cried wolf so often about fake emergencies that friends stopped responding.”
- Hindi: “वह बार-बार झूठी मुसीबतें बताती थी, इसलिए दोस्तों ने ध्यान देना बंद कर दिया।”
Psychological & Social Insight
Why People Cry Wolf:
✓ Attention-Seeking: Desire for immediate concern
✓ Manipulation: Trying to control situations
✓ Boredom: Creating excitement
Negative Effects:
✗ Damaged relationships
✗ Lost credibility
✗ Real emergencies get ignored
Usage Tips
✔ Use when warning about credibility loss
✔ Effective in parenting/teaching contexts
✔ Often appears with “stop”, “keep”, or “don’t”
Similar Expressions
English | Hindi |
---|---|
“False alarm” | “झूठी चेतावनी” |
“Boy who cried wolf” | “झूठा गडरिया” |
“Lose credibility” | “विश्वसनीयता खोना” |
Cultural Perspectives
- Universal Lesson: Found in cultures worldwide
- Indian Version: Similar to “झूठ बोलने वाला गडरिया” folktale
- Modern Context: Applies to social media misinformation
Reflection Questions:
- Have you ever “cried wolf”? What happened?
- How can we distinguish real from fake emergencies?
- Why is maintaining credibility important?